Chocolate Pete

In SE Asia there are a few places where western Men go to reinvent themselves. The places vary little in design and the guys tend to slowly evolve to look much alike in their element. The places are usually open aired with a bit of a nod towards decoration with lights...

Inflatable Sex Pig

A clash of cultures can highlight the gender differences. I was in Oslo on a stag party nigh with 2 French groomsmen to be. Both very French without any regards for other opinions and just wore their idiosyncrasies on their shoulder for all to see without shame. It is...

Red wine relationships

I use to live with 4 girls between 21-25. It was the result of kicking out al the hangers on who took advantage of my house while I was at sea. When I bought the house I just moved in with the buddies I was living as a student. With girls they just carried on normal...

Pete Misadventures#1

After years of study Pete finally got himself a good position in in field of Social work. He was working in one of Alberta’s major city social services programs. I am not sure all the years in classrooms prepared him properly for this but I do recall a story where he...

Table of Tits

After 7 weeks at sea and with my wife in Africa I returned home to Ottawa. A friend of ours, Michelle, from newfoundland who used to live with us but was now also in Ottawa was heading for a weekend in Montreal with a girlfriend, Kimmy, and invited me to tag along....

Jae & Liz Last Dance

      Sometimes it is difficult to determine the impact these two had on my life as it is. I was 17, which is almost 35 years ago when I first met them. Tim and I coming from semi-rural Newfoundland to go to university met Liz in our physics class. It...

Yoga A Cure for WWII

North America’s industrial base was undamaged by WWII. In the following years it was quick to dominate economically manufacturing all the new products developed to fight WWII. This was the foundation of the Superrich and corporate giants who needed to keep expanding...

Girls Talk, Guys…

Leadership is often about what you don’t say or do. Leading by example and motivational speeches are directed management for ‘doing’ leadership. In Band of Brothers the minimal moment was between Winters and Buck at the movie theater where as everybody is leaveing...

Death Cards

I don’t believe I am a superstitious man, unfortunately I also believe that if you have to say something about yourself then it is very likely untrue. In either case I believe there is more to the world than we currently understand with science but that I do not have...

A Rule Of Thumb

There is never any good associated with beating your spouse or children. Such a need always represents a weakness and illness in the individual or culture. It always results in damage to the next generation and likely just perpetuates a cycle. I had an ex, she was...